The invention discloses an intelligent electric energy meter wireless communication and control method. The method is used for interactive communication between multiple intelligent electric energy meters and a master station management system, and control. The method comprises the following steps of S1, uploading information to the master station management system by the intelligent electric energy meters under preset conditions according to an uploading time stage, S2, receiving return information sent by the master station management system by the intelligent electric energy meters, S3, treating the return information by the intelligent electric energy meters, and S4, returning response message to the master station management system by the intelligent electric energy meters. The preset conditions of the step S1 comprise manual intervention conditions and intelligent electric energy meter automatic-setting conditions. The uploading time stage comprises a first manual intervention uploading time stage and an intelligent electric energy meter automatic-uploading time stage. Under the manual intervention conditions, the intelligent electric energy meters carry out real-time uploading. Under the intelligent electric energy meter automatic-setting conditions, the intelligent electric energy meters automatically upload information to the master station management system, the intelligent electric energy meter automatic-uploading time stage is divided into n time slices Tslot, and each one intelligent electric energy meter is corresponding to one fixed time slice.