The present invention is applicable to the technical field of electronics, and provides a wireless access control management system and a wireless access control management method, the system comprises a radio frequency SIM card memory module, an iris identification module and a smart door lock, the iris identification module comprises a radio frequency SIM card read head, an iris identification device and a processor; the processor reads preset verification iris information stored in an external radio frequency SIM card in a current read head area via the radio frequency SIM card read head; the iris identification device collects current to-be-verified iris information; the preset verification iris information and the current to-be-verified iris information are compared; and if the preset verification iris information and the current to-be-verified iris information are consistent, an unlocking signal is sent to the smart door lock. The radio frequency SIM card is used for storage of user's iris information, the level of information security can be ensured, and the cost for building of data storage servers and server networks can be saved.