A suspension connector and suspension hoist method for adjustable aircraft soft fuel tank A suspension connector for installed an aircraft in a soft fuel tank compartment, A metal connecting assemblyis composed of a metal connecting assembly with fastening nut, a traction hole at that upper end, a screw rod of an inherently horizontal square plate welded at the lower end through a convex upper cover plate with holes, and a square plate is put into a square box body riveted by a convex upper cover plate and a lower bottom plate. The adhesive tape connecting bag can wrap the square box body ofthe metal connecting assembly, sleeve the corresponding side with the positioning hole on the screw, and the other corresponding side tightens the nylon rope passing through the five-eyed row holes and engages with the metal connecting assembly, and sew and paste a circular reinforcing adhesive tape sheet on the lower part of the connecting bag. The invention improves the overall structural performance of the soft fuel tank, realizes the finite adjustability of the hanging point of the soft fuel tank when the engine is installed, avoids the reluctant connection between the fuel tank and the hanging point of the engine room, and ensures the service life.