The present disclosure relates to the field of water softening device and provides a water softening control method and apparatus, electronic device and storage medium. The water softening control method includes: obtaining a comparison result between water consumption of a user and a soft water volume threshold; regenerating resin for water softening through a water softening agent in accordance with a determination that the water consumption of the user is greater than or equal to the soft water volume threshold; obtaining first consumption of the water softening agent during the resin regeneration; and determining second water consumption for the resin regeneration based on the first consumption and the first water consumption for the resin regeneration.