Systems and methods for managing a highly available distributed database comprising: a memory storing instructions; and one or more processors configured to execute the instructions to: determine that a source node, in a distributed database comprising the source node and one or more replica nodes, is not available; select a most-updated replica node from the one or more replica nodes; switch a role of the most-updated replica node to source; update a data store to label the source node as unavailable and the selected replica node as being a promoted source node; send a notification to a user device to update a database topology based on the updated data store; determine whether the user device has updated the database topology; and upon determining the user device has not updated the database topology, continue to send the notification to the user device until the user device has updated the database topology.