A method and system for providing service menu information when an alerting service is provided between a calling terminal and a called terminal are provided. For this includes transmitting, by a calling terminal, a call setup request message including a service menu request; comparing, by a first server, service capability information of the calling terminal with service capability information of a called terminal, when it is necessary to evaluate the service capability information of the calling and called terminals, upon receipt of the call setup request message; and providing, by the first server, service menu to the calling and called terminals according to the comparison.