A communication control management system includes at least one communication terminal 160 and a server 260 which makes a communication mutually with the communication terminal 160. The server 260 includes a memory portion 261 for storing user authentication information, user related information relating to users and terminal operation information relating to the operation of the communication terminal 160; a data receiving portion 262 for receiving data from the communication terminal 160; a terminal status management portion 263 for managing the status of the communication terminal 160 used by a user; and a data transmission portion 264 for transmitting to the communication terminal 160 at least one of the user related information (personal information etc.) of the user authenticated by the user authentication information and the terminal operation information (display screen etc.) of the corresponding communication terminal.