A windshield wiper connector and windshield wiper connection assembly. The windshield wiper connector comprises a main body, a lodging device and a flexible fastening device. The lodging device is disposed to a rear of the main body to lodge with a barb portion at random angles. One end of the flexile fastening device is connected below a front of the main body while another end is an extending end upwardly extended toward an upper side of the main body. The flexible fastening device leans against a protruding portion. After the lodging device is hooked with the barb portion, the windshield wiper arm is rotated by taking a hooking portion as an axis so that the extending end propped by the protruding portion performs a deformation toward a direction being distant from the protruding portion. When the protruding portion crosses the extending end, the extending end is restored.