A method and system for monitoring and controlling network access includes non-intrusively monitoring network traffic and assembling data packets that are specific to individual node-to-node transmissions in order to manage network access both inside and outside of a network. A rules base is generated to apply at either or both of the connection time and the time subsequent to connection. With regard to a particular node-to-node transmission, the data packets are assembled to identify the source and destination nodes, as well as contextual information (i.e., ISO Layer 7 information). The access rules are applied in a sequential order to determine whether the transmission is a restricted transmission. The rules are maintained in a single rules base for the entire network and are distributed to each monitoring node. Any of the protocols in the suite of TCP/IP protocols can be managed. The result of an analysis against the rules base causes a connection attempt to be completed or denied, a previously established connection to be broken, logging to occur, or a combination of these and other actions. Data collected during connection attempts or during a connection's lifetime may be passed to a third-party hardware or software component in order for independent validation to take place. Traffic monitoring and access management can be executed at a node other than a choke point of the network.