A method and a system for allocating memory in a memory buffer that is part of a data distribution device. Generally, the allocation of memory is for the purpose of storing datagrams. The method allocates memory in the buffer based, at least partially, on how ingress ports that are operably connected to the memory buffer have previously used the buffer to store datagrams. The system typically includes one or more detectors that monitor how various ingresses into the data distribution device are using and have used the memory buffer.