A method is disclosed to provide delayed responses to messages. The method includes receiving in a computer, an email message containing a control character, from a network. The control character specifying a reply prohibiting period during which a reply to the email message over the network will be prohibited. The method then includes receiving in the computer, a user request at a requesting instant to reply to the email message. The method then includes determining whether the requesting instant occurs during the reply prohibiting period specified by the control character. The method then includes prohibiting a reply to the email message over the network if the requesting instant occurs during the reply prohibiting period. And finally, the method then includes allowing a reply to the email message over the network if the requesting instant does not occur during the reply prohibiting period.