In a communication network comprising nodes and links between the nodes, a controller node disseminates routing information including nodal routing tables. A nodal routing table for a given node comprises alternate routes from the given node to other nodes in the network. A controller of the network receives traffic information from nodes and, based on the received traffic information, determines a set of adaptive routing information corresponding to each said node and transmits each set of adaptive routing information to the respective node. Determining the set of adaptive routing information is performed according to a courteous routing scheme. The routing scheme is labeled as “courteous” because, in a contention state, a node-pair that would suffer the least by directing a part of its traffic away from a preferred path yields to node pairs that suffer more by redirecting their traffic. Courteous routing increases the payload throughput and decreases real-time processing effort. A node, having received the set of adaptive routing information, initializes a set of vacancy vectors. The vacancy vectors are used while allocating incoming connection requests to routes. While a connection is allocated to a route, the available capacity of the allocated route, as reported in the vacancy vector, is reduced by the load of the allocated connection.