A method of transmitting messages from a network node in a communication network to a first user device can be provided. The network node transmits to a second user device a message-waiting notification. The first user device is identified, and a node holding the message is identified. In response to that notification, the second user device transmits a connection request to the first user device. The connection request is acted on by the first user device to establish a connection. With the identified node, the message can be optionally transmitted to the first user device.