Methods, systems, and devices for wireless communication are described. A transmitting device may be communicating via a relay wireless communication link. The communicating may include communications using a plurality of bearers. The transmitting device may identify a packet for transmission on the relay wireless communication link belonging to a first bearer. The first bearer may have an associated quality of service (QoS) parameter set. The transmitting device may configured a header of the packet that is processed by a relay wireless device to convey an indication of the QoS parameter set. The transmitting device may transmit the packet including the configured header on the relay wireless communication link and according to the QoS parameter set.