A system and associated methods for controlling valve motion in internal combustion engines provide a pulsing component for energizing a solenoid control valve in pulsatile fashion to cause a transient pressure change in a hydraulic network linking the control valve to a common, paired set of intake and exhaust main event deactivation mechanisms, which may be provided in respective valve bridges. The pressure change results in hydraulic deactivation of main event motion of the exhaust valve while avoiding deactivation of main intake event motion and thereby preserving intake main event valve motion, and supporting use of the intake main event motion for additional braking or other operations. The systems and methods are particularly suited for engine environments that employ cylinder deactivation (CDA) combined with high-power density (HPD) engine braking.