A data processing method for a care-giving robot and an apparatus comprises receiving data from a target object comprising a capability parameter of the target object, generating a growing model capability parameter matrix of the target object that includes the capability parameter, a capability parameter adjustment value, and a comprehensive capability parameter that is calculated based on the capability parameter; adjusting the capability parameter adjustment value in the growing model capability parameter matrix, to determine an adjusted capability parameter adjustment value; determining whether the adjusted capability parameter adjustment value exceeds a preset threshold; and sending the adjusted capability parameter adjustment value to a machine learning engine when the adjusted capability parameter adjustment value is within a range of the preset threshold.