Provided are a resource requesting method and device, and a resource request processing method and device. The method includes: acquiring, by a terminal, a buffer size corresponding to an same frequency point or anchor frequency point in a logical channel group; reporting, by the terminal, an Sidelink BSR to a base station, where the Sidelink BSR includes at least one of: a destination index corresponding to the same frequency point or anchor frequency point; a logical channel group identifier or a logical channel identifier; or a buffer size.