The invention relates to the technical field of automobile inhaul cable joints, and discloses a self-adaptive damping shock absorber inhaul cable joint. The inhaul cable joint comprises a inhaul cabledriving end metal rod, and further comprises a inhaul cable joint end metal rod, a flange plate, a vibration damping rubber spring and a vibration reduction shell which are sequentially arranged frominside to outside in a sleeved mode; the flange plate and the vibration damping rubber spring are arranged in an inner cavity of the vibration reduction shell, one end of the inhaul cable joint end metal rod is arranged in the vibration reduction shell, the other end of the metal rod extends out of the vibration reduction shell, and the inhaul cable joint end metal rod is provided with a inhaul cable taper pin joint; the flange plate is in interference fit with the inhaul cable joint end metal rod, the vibration damping rubber spring is in clearance fit with the inhaul cable joint end metal rod, the vibration damping rubber spring and the flange plate are fixed through a vulcanization process, and the vibration reduction shell is in clearance fit with the vibration reduction rubber spring; and the inhaul cable driving end metal rod is in threaded connection with the vibration reduction shell. According to the inhaul cable joint, vibration of different frequencies can be adapted, the sensing quality problems that a gear shifting handle is shaken, and the gear shifting impact is large can be solved, and gear shifting is more smooth.