The invention discloses a bamboo (wood) frame structure beam column assembly type energy consumption joint. The assembly type energy consumption joint is installed in the connection position of a column and a beam and comprises a cross-shaped steel column, a horizontal reinforcing steel plate, column connecting steel plates, beam flange steel plates and a beam connecting steel plate. The horizontal reinforcing steel plate used for preventing compressive buckling of column limbs is welded to the middle of the cross-shaped steel column. One column limb of the cross-shaped steel column is wide and serves as a beam web. The column connecting steel plates are welded to the upper end and the lower end of the cross-shaped steel column correspondingly. The beam connecting steel plate is welded to the end of the wide column limb which serves as the beam web. The beam flange steel plates are welded to the upper portion and the lower portion of the wide column limb correspondingly. One end of each beam flange steel plate is welded to the corresponding column connecting steel plate, and the other end of each beam flange steel plate is welded to the beam connecting steel plate. The bamboo (wood) frame structure beam column assembly type energy consumption joint is reliable in connection and convenient to construct, has a certain energy consumption capability and has high bearing capacity.